Hatred??

They say that there is many stages in the grief process. Is HATRED one of them???


1. DENIAL: At this stage of the process we are unwilling to accept the truth of the situation. This is also a stage of shock and we may feel like we are in a dream and will soon awaken to find the problem isn’t there.

2. ANGER: It is common for persons experiencing loss to feel angry and feel the need to blame themselves or others for their situation. It is not uncommon to feel that God is punishing you.

3. BARGAINING: This phase is brief but important. We tell ourselves if this problem goes away we will be a better person and will try to make up for mistakes in the past.

4. DEPRESSION: We feel depressed as we anticipate various kinds of changes in our living situations or even the loss of our own lives if we are suffering from a serious illness.

5. ACCEPTANCE: After moving through the previous steps we can finally accept what cannot change. We may no like the experience but we can accept it and move on with our lives.


According to many websites its not. Although I believe that it should be!!!